If you’re considering divorce, the Clash’s song “Should I Stay or Should I Go” may be a nagging tune that will be the soundtrack of your life for months, maybe even years.

Limbo in your marriage is a horrible place to be. Yet, that’s exactly what happens to couples who can’t decide if one scenario is better than another.

It can be agonizing.

If this sounds like your marriage, you and your spouse may be a perfect fit for discernment counseling.